“What you see and what you hear depends a great deal on where you are standing. It also depends on what sort of person you are.”
There was a point in my life where after a long day, I regret to say, I sometimes felt emptied to a point of toxicity. I felt I had nothing left to give. This is not true of course. I was being deceived. Mistaken indeed. Other times I have equally demanding days, yet I am filled. Ready to serve. The difference seems to be one of attitude and perspective. Resentment seems to breed toxicity and emptiness. Thinking something was not fair. Someone did not do their part. Focusing on self.
The better way, I have come to believe, is to focus on gaining perspective. True wisdom, I believe, is seeing things as God sees things. We tend to get glimpses from time to time. Understanding, I believe, is obeying God’s commands. Thinking of the long-term effects instead of the short-term. The eternal perspective providing all understanding.
Reflection seems to be a tool for gaining perspective. Anyone can look back on yesterday and say ‘I was foolish’ but who can look in to the next minute and say ‘that would be foolish.’? To say. To do. To think. Who can be so aware to notice feelings setting in? Subtle attitudes taking hold? Who can notice and change their course? Reflection and pause and sensitivity are habits that make us wise. Discipline and humility, I believe, aid in understanding.
-A takeaway from Simplify by Bill Hybels
As always good books, takeaways, stories, and/or lessons learned on the subject are most appreciated.